Longtime relationship tips from my point of view

After 3.5 years in a relationship if today I look back then I realize that it was worth having such a relationship like that. Almost 4 years ago I was so confused about my life goals and I had very less earning capabilities than today. So the girl played very important role in my life to focus on my career.

It was a mature relationship as the girl was intelligent and very realistic also almost same of my age. I can say I had mental peace with her. We used to understand each other very well and share everything with each other. She was my inspiration and because of her I could really focus on my work. My world was so perfect only because of her. We almost never fought because of any third person in our life as our bonding and trust for each other was so strong. We fought for some other reasons though.

Every relationship has its different story. Respect is very important in a relationship from the both sides. In relationships “anger”, “ego”, “disloyalty”, “lies” are the biggest enemies that can destroy a healthy relationship very easily.

That’s all I wanted to share from my experience.

What is bootstrap and how to use it?

Bootstrap is a free and open-source front-end framework for designing websites and web application.

In my opinion:

Mark Otto and Jacob Thornton from twitter developed css and javascript files such a way that we (web-designers) don’t need to spend hours to think about the responsive framework and design. Besides it is free and open source so we can use bootstrap to develop websites and web applications for clients so easily like never before. You only need to remember the css classes when designing a responsive website or application. If you want to make any change in the design or property then you have to modify the property in the css or js file. The very new front-end web designers manly work with HTML, CSS, Javascript with very little knowledge and experience. But once they start using bootstrap then they can easily design beautiful websites without having deep knowledge in css and javascript in no time. The new designers will get some basic frameworks to start with from https://getbootstrap.com

Then from examples choose any theme then press CTRL+U and you will get the sample code of the theme.

You can use bootstrap in two ways in your website. First, You download the latest version of bootstrap codes from https://getbootstrap.com or you can put the links in the head section into your website. That you will get from the bootstrap official website under BootstrapCDN.

<link rel="stylesheet" href="https://stackpath.bootstrapcdn.com/bootstrap/4.1.2/css/bootstrap.min.css" integrity="sha384-Smlep5jCw/wG7hdkwQ/Z5nLIefveQRIY9nfy6xoR1uRYBtpZgI6339F5dgvm/e9B" crossorigin="anonymous">
<script src="https://stackpath.bootstrapcdn.com/bootstrap/4.1.2/js/bootstrap.min.js" integrity="sha384-o+RDsa0aLu++PJvFqy8fFScvbHFLtbvScb8AjopnFD+iEQ7wo/CG0xlczd+2O/em" crossorigin="anonymous"></script>
<script src="https://code.jquery.com/jquery-3.3.1.slim.min.js" integrity="sha384-q8i/X+965DzO0rT7abK41JStQIAqVgRVzpbzo5smXKp4YfRvH+8abtTE1Pi6jizo" crossorigin="anonymous"></script>
<script src="https://cdnjs.cloudflare.com/ajax/libs/popper.js/1.14.3/umd/popper.min.js" integrity="sha384-ZMP7rVo3mIykV+2+9J3UJ46jBk0WLaUAdn689aCwoqbBJiSnjAK/l8WvCWPIPm49" crossorigin="anonymous"></script>

How were we created? – A question that bothers me from childhood

I am not satisfied till now from the answers I got from the people. How the universe was created so perfectly and beautifully? Did any architect create this or it was automatically created by itself? Was it the result of the Big Bang Theory that is believed by most of the scientists? Or the universe was the result of some experiments that was done by some external force from the outside of the universe? Or the entire universe is nothing but just an atom?

In my childhood I used to believe that there must be something more out there I mean the outside of the universe.

After studying programming I used to think we are the objects of some popular online game where every life is controlled by users from the outside system. And we follow the instructions from the users. Whenever I got an idea, I see it as an instruction from the user who is controlling my character.

If so then the Earth is not a place for fun. We are the characters responsible for fun for the other characters outside the game.

Then I can imagine the other countries are the different teams like clans. And a clan can consist of so many characters that provide resource, energy and others to the clan.

So already the clans fought twice for some reasons and they are making themselves stronger to fight better next time till the end.

There are so many reasons have been created by the developer of the game to fight inside a country and between the countries and with the aliens (difficult level). So when we fight the controllers enjoy.

I know I am crazy because I am thinking this way. Can you prove me wrong with your imagination? I would love to be proved wrong.

I will write more on this topic…

Can we depend completely on online earning?

Making money online was my childhood dream. I remember when I was completing my 10+2 then I used to look for some solutions related to money making from Internet through Google search engine. That time I had no knowledge about “how to make money online” so whatever results I got I used to believe in them. I used to think that the online data entry jobs are the one and only way to make money from internet. But I was very wrong that time. As I had no earning source in my school life so I was looking for the ways to “make money from the internet without investments using a computer.” Yes, using a computer! That’s all I had then.

I worked at so many fraud websites for data entry jobs and I got nothing. But still I used to believe there must be some other ways to make money online. By the time I understood that making money online is not so easy and there is not an easy way.

I started reading so many articles, blogs and I came to know that there was something to do with website, blogging and affiliate marketing thing. So I focused on them completely. Also I understood that one can really earn from YouTube and self-publishing.

I wanted to earn some money to maintain my lifestyle in my school days. So I started teaching English grammar subject. But my focus never shifted from online earning. I became a popular English teacher in my locality in very short time. Teaching used to give me almost 6000-7000 INR (100$-130$) in the first year of my teaching career. I remember I used to invest almost 70% of my monthly earning on internet with the hope that I will know the real tricks of online earning.

I had purchased some domains with no proper planning. The first website I purchased was ystindia.com from godaddy. But I didn’t know what to do with the website. It was my fast semester in college and I used my website to write the answers of the previous year question papers. I also put there one donation button of my paypal account with the hope that someone will donate me for my work. But Alas! Nobody did. But I didn’t lose hope. I applied so many times for Adsense for my website and was rejected.

My struggle went on beside my studies. During the time I purchased another website with my name ranjanbarman.com because that time I was inspired by one popular blogger Rosalind Gardner and some others. Rosalind Gardner is a blogger cum author of some popular books like Super Affiliate Handbook. She had her website by her name http://rosalindgardner.com. So I decided to buy a website with my name.

This time I really wrote some articles on my personal experiences that I had. But also I was trying to get a short website name because I had intentions to hire some freelance bloggers to write contents for my website. As the website was on my name so it seemed little odd to me. I researched for months to get a perfect domain name but not the premium ones. Premium domains are usually very costly. On 7th May 2016 I bought blogrator.com at last. I was so lucky that I got it in just normal price. And I moved all my old articles to blogrator.com after few months. My request was approved by Google Adsense for content program after so many rejections for ranjanbarman.com

And then I was using the Adsense ads for blogrator.com. I make very little money from my website till now with Adsense ads.

Since 2016 I am working hard online to generate money besides my offline works. Money mainly comes from my offline works that I invest on my online activities. I have a long run vision for blogrator so I will be giving full force to it in the coming years. I have visions to make it full of contents with lots of visitors in future.

Whatever money I make online I am not satisfied with it. Definitely the online money helps me a lot when it is combined with my offline money. Sometimes I make more money from online than my day to day job and sometimes I make less.

So my offline day to day job always supported my online works. Like the same way the money from online helped me to invest and grow my offline business. Both of the works are supporting each another. The day may come one day when I can only depend on my online earning. And that day I will take leave from my day to day job.

So we can’t only depend on the online earning till the success. You can take your online activities as your part time job till it gives you enough support.

Thank you for reading.

How to start an online business and make money?

Any business with investments speed up very quickly if you have good management plans. Where business without investments may take little longer to generate revenues. But both of the ways can be very successful depending on business plan and marketing strategy.

To become a successful business you need an accurate long run plan, good focus, dedication, hardworking, honesty, flexibility, investments(of time, money, man power, good will etc) and proper knowledge on the field.

Basic questions that may come to your mind when you think to start a online business:

  • What will be the online business?
  • How to start an online business?
  • How to get customers online?
  • Why customers will buy products/services online from me when there are popular platforms available?
  • How to accept payments and orders from customer?
  • How to deliver the products to the customers?

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